Why Can’t They Just Sit Still?
Sarah Jane McGarry Sarah Jane McGarry

Why Can’t They Just Sit Still?

Why does a child keep leaning back on their chair even after being told to stop? This blog explores inhibitory control, an important executive functioning skill linked to ADHD and autism, and explains why some children struggle to pause, stay still, and stop their body in the moment.

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It’s Not Behaviour… It’s the Struggle to Stop
Sarah Jane McGarry Sarah Jane McGarry

It’s Not Behaviour… It’s the Struggle to Stop

What looks like behaviour, inattention, or emotional outbursts is often one underlying difficulty: the struggle to stop. This blog explains how one core skill affects attention, thinking, emotions, and movement.

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Have We Confused Validating Emotions with Accepting Dysregulation?
Sarah Jane McGarry Sarah Jane McGarry

Have We Confused Validating Emotions with Accepting Dysregulation?

There has been a shift in how we respond to children’s behaviour. While validating emotions is important, it is not enough. This blog explores how inhibitory control and flexible thinking impact emotional regulation, and why children need skill building, not just understanding.

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ADHD and Autism: Different Ways the Brain Regulates Action, Attention, and Emotion
Self-Understanding, Neurodiversity, Autism, ADHD Sarah Jane McGarry Self-Understanding, Neurodiversity, Autism, ADHD Sarah Jane McGarry

ADHD and Autism: Different Ways the Brain Regulates Action, Attention, and Emotion

ADHD and autism aren’t behaviour problems. They are differences in how the brain regulates starting, stopping, switching, and emotion. This blog explains those differences in a clear, compassionate way for parents and adults trying to understand themselves.

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