Understanding Flexible Thinking: Why Autistic and ADHD Young People Can Become Rigid — and Vulnerable to Outside Influence

Understanding Flexible Thinking: Why Autistic and ADHD Young People Can Become Rigid — and Vulnerable to Outside Influence

Autistic and ADHD young people are often described as “rigid,” but this isn’t stubbornness — it’s a difference in flexible thinking. This blog explains why they may cling tightly to certain beliefs, become influenced by outside voices, and struggle to shift when something isn’t working. A supportive guide for families who want to understand and help their young person stay safe and informed.

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Understanding Social Communication and Its Challenges for Those Who Are Autistic

Understanding Social Communication and Its Challenges for Those Who Are Autistic

Social communication involves far more than words. This blog explores the unique challenges autistic individuals may face with non-verbal cues, conversational rules, emotional regulation, and social expectations, alongside practical strategies for support.

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How Weak Working Memory Can Impact Your Day

How Weak Working Memory Can Impact Your Day

Weak working memory can make even simple daily tasks challenging. This blog explores how working memory difficulties affect routines, conversations, learning, and productivity, alongside practical strategies to help manage and support working memory in everyday life.

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Understanding Your Own Autism or ADHD: The Path to Personal Mastery

Understanding Your Own Autism or ADHD: The Path to Personal Mastery

Understanding your own autism or ADHD is the first step toward personal mastery. This blog explores executive functioning, sensory processing, co-occurring conditions, and real-life examples to help individuals build strategies that support their daily life.

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Understanding Time Blindness in ADHD

Understanding Time Blindness in ADHD

Time blindness is one of the most misunderstood ADHD traits. It’s not about being lazy — it’s about how the ADHD brain processes time. In this blog, we explore why it happens and how to support children and adults who experience it.

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Dismantling the Myth: Why Neurodivergent Diagnosis Helps Children, Not Harms Them
Mental Health, ADHD, Autism & ADHD, Autism Sarah Jane McGarry Mental Health, ADHD, Autism & ADHD, Autism Sarah Jane McGarry

Dismantling the Myth: Why Neurodivergent Diagnosis Helps Children, Not Harms Them

Many claim that neurodivergent diagnoses “label” children unnecessarily — but this misunderstanding harms children far more than the diagnosis ever could. In this post, I dismantle the myth that identifying ADHD or autism is negative, and explain why recognition and understanding are essential for a child’s wellbeing, identity, and development.

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Alexithymia and Narcissistic Behaviour: Debunking the Myth
Sarah Jane McGarry Sarah Jane McGarry

Alexithymia and Narcissistic Behaviour: Debunking the Myth

Many people confuse alexithymia with narcissism, but the truth is far more nuanced. This blog explains the real reasons autistic and ADHD individuals may struggle to express emotions—and why this has nothing to do with narcissistic traits.

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